High Conflict Central exists, in large part, due to the nasty divorce experience of its founding partners. We have experienced the harshness of divorce, custody battles, denial of parenting time, ineffective court authorities, and worthless lawyers. We understand how frightening it is to try and navigate the Family Court System, and we also understand the scary stories you will find on an internet search. When you read some of these “I lost custody of my children for no reason” blogs out there, they will send you into a tailspin, and can create such fear, anxiety, and drama that they will cause you to overreact to the Family Court System in a way that will devastate your case.
Let me tell you something. I have had the opportunity to read many of these cases. I am here to tell you that in almost every horror story case, when the parent tells you, “They took my children away from me for no reason”, the reality is that there is almost always a reason. It boils down to that parent’s lack of understanding about what the system is trying to accomplish and their own erratic behavior. For example, victims of Domestic Violence have a reaction to situations that normal people rarely have. Because they have developed something called, “hypervigilance”, they can overreact to different processes that are a normal part of divorce and custody cases.
Because the court processes have become quite lengthy in a disputed divorce with children, parents are on edge, waiting to get rulings about when they will get to spend time with their children, and how much time they will have. Waiting and not being in control of your own life or family creates anxiety and fear, but no one needs to allow anxiety and fear to overcome them or God forbid, to put you into a tailspin that results in losing time and the ability to parent your children.
High Conflict Central is here to help you navigate the Family Court System in an empowered way. We have been through Family Court and lived to tell the tale. We know that you can make the system and authorities in the system work better for you, but you are in control of how that goes. We know that you can be a strong parent, in spite of a toxic co-parent and even the family court system. You can, and you must! You are the one who can break the cycle or dysfunction, domestic violence, and toxic relationships, and be an excellent role model who teaches children healthier ways to live life.
Steer clear of the negativity in the blogosphere! We can give you an understanding of Family Court so you can use it to your advantage. We will give you new skills to succeed in family court, keep your children out of the fray and achieve the life you desire. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain by connecting with us. Email us, or visit our High Conflict Central website to learn more.
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