If you want the truth to be shown, do not interfere.  When someone is digging themselves a deep hole, let them!  This is a hard concept for many divorced parents, but it is a myth to believe that any of it is within your control.  It isn’t.  Do what you are supposed to be doing and stop worrying about your ex.  They will do whatever it is they are going to do.  Trying to make them do what they won’t is a never-ending source of misery.  Protecting them from their own nonsense is no longer your role.  Protect the children as much as you can, but when you ex is acting a fool, let them.  If you think they are acting a fool, it is highly likely that other people will see it that way, too.  Don’t get yourself in the mix!

You may also enjoy a video from Coach Susan called, “Just Get Outta the Way!” .  You can view it here.